Are You An Ally?
Being an ally promotes inclusivity, diversity, and equality. An ally is someone who supports and speaks up for marginalized and underrepresented groups and communities. Allies play significant roles in creating a more inclusive and equitable world by using their Privilege and influence to amplify the voices of those who may not have had the same opportunities or resources they had. When you stand up for people, you show that you're "on their side" when they need help.
One reason it’s so important to be an ally is to help to break down systemic oppression and discrimination. So many marginalized groups face barriers and challenges in society due to these injustices such as racism, xenophobia, homophobia and more. Allies can really help challenge this and raise awareness by advocating for others and advocating for change in the face of discrimination and injustice.
When you're an ally, you can help create a safe space and a sense of belonging for other communities and individuals.
Would you stand up for your friend if they were being bullied? Would you stand up for your friend if you heard people talking about them when they weren’t around? I assume the answer is yes. So, why would you not stand up for a group of people that you claim to care for and respect? Why would you let your friends, family, or strangers say things about groups of people that you don’t agree with?
If we allow others to put down, disrespect, or abuse communities and we say nothing, are complicit in their acts?
Let’s look at the impact of Allies!
Constance McMillian is a Mississippi teen whose prom was cancelled, then secretly rescheduled without her inclusion; all because she wanted to bring her girlfriend to the prom and wear a tuxedo. All her classmates attended the secret prom and celebrated with pictures and stories while Constance was excluded and discriminated against for being gay. Her classmates were complicit in this discrimination.
Fortunately, in the case of Abby Brammer, people were not complicit. Abby was a 17-year-old African American high school student who was hired unseen then promptly fired by the restaurant owner when he saw she was black. Even though the owner and adjacent businesses were complicit with the discrimination, Abby, along with her coworker, and 40 of her high school friends were not. The teens arranged a protest outside of the restaurant gaining media attention, ultimately decreasing the restaurant’s business, and causing its eventual closure.
If you support the differences in everyone and believe we all should have equal treatment and rights, then what is holding you back from speaking up for others?
Being an ally can lead to positive social change. Being an ally can lead to meaningful relationships and impactful community connections. We have one chance on this planet to stand up for what is right, and use our voice, privilege, and influence to help others. If you choose not to use this voice you are as guilty as their oppressors.
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